THE GOD OF THE HILLS AND VALLEYS. Have you ever felt that there were days that nothing has happened as you have planned? Just one by one, things were beginning to unravel? 

I've had days like these. When I missed my shuttle by seconds. When I had too much stress in the office. Or just plain bombarded with negative thoughts, or going through a rough time in my life. I have learned (and I am still learning)  that in all things, God is in control, He is God and He has you in the palm of His hands, He is looking down on you, and He can see your pain, your situation.

There are times that I have felt down and defeated, sometimes wondering and asking God why He allows these hard times to happen in our lives. Then God reminds me that although I may not see the big picture yet, He is there, He is making all things right for me. He is with me in the hills, in the good times and He is with me in the valleys, the difficult and hard times. 

As my favorite song of the moment says: 

No matter what I have, Your grace is enough
No matter where I am, I'm standing in Your love

When I'm standing on the mountain, I didn't get there on my own
When I'm walking through the valley, I know I am not alone!

Hills and Valleys

by Tauren Wells

Know that whatever you are going through, you are not alone. God is with you, even though you cannot see or feel it. He will see you through, just trust Him. :)

REFRESHINGLY CHIC. We recently helped a friend with redecorating his condo unit. He asked for something relaxing and modern, we immediately suggested Scandinavian interiors. 

Renowned for their simplicity, utility, and beauty, Scandinavian homes have a pure, pared backed style that is centred around warm functionality, clean lines, flawless craftsmanship and understated elegance. The use of light is considered to be extremely important, and many Scandinavian homes  are characterized by the use of earthy muted tones, honest materials and minimal ornamentation.

In my opinion, Scandinavian design is one way to have a modern and functional space, without sacrificing the warmth and homey-ness. I find that this particular style pays homage to the modern and minimalist design without being too cold and stiff, thus it is the perfect way to go, if you want a modern yet warm look for your space.

Here are a few design pegs/ images that we think exudes this particular style:

Use of wood and simple lines make this bedroom/ sleeping nook cozy and warm.

I love the contrast of the black table against the white furniture. The use of light colored/ stain of wood also gives a homey feel to this space.

This modern space is both warm and modern as well as finctional

Notice the modern elements mixed with use of wood. 

Scandinavian Design uses muted colors to evoke a feeling of minimalism at the same time, use of wood softens the look. 

In other news, I am back to blogging! I missed writing as well (my outlet when I'm stressed. heheh) I promise that will try to write more. :)

Hope you are all doing great! Christmas is just around the corner, have you started shopping and decorating your home already? :)

MARRIAGE 101. I love talking to other married or single women about relationships and marriage and exchanging notes and experiences. I just got married last September 2015 and I have a long way to go in figuring out the married life. hahah. Being with your husband/ partner is blissful and challenging at the same time. You always have to find the right balance between staying true to yourself and being a part of the duo that you are now (because when you get married, you're one with your husband). It's about contributing to the relationship and also giving, to make it work. :)

BE STILL AND KNOW THAT HE IS GOD. These past few weeks have been a roller coaster ride. This January, we found out that I was pregnant. We were so excited for this precious gift. Then the worst happened, 7 weeks in, I lost the baby in my womb. We went in for a routine ultrasound 2 weeks ago and got the biggest shock of our lives : our baby had no more heartbeat. 

Our doctor explained that the baby had developmental problems, the abnormalities would have made it hard to continue with life. There was nothing that I could have done to change the situation (bed rest, less stress, eating healthier, etc), it was something that was out of my control. As a first time mom, I was really devastated. I cried so hard in the clinic where I had my ultrasound ; cried for my baby who I so longed to see and hold.